nbd: Improve server handling of shutdown requests

nbd: Improve server handling of shutdown requests

NBD commit 6d34500b clarified how clients and servers are supposed
to behave before closing a connection. It added NBD_REP_ERR_SHUTDOWN
(for the server to announce it is about to go away during option
haggling, so the client should quit sending NBD_OPT_* other than
NBD_OPT_ABORT) and ESHUTDOWN (for the server to announce it is about
to go away during transmission, so the client should quit sending
NBD_CMD_* other than NBD_CMD_DISC).  It also clarified that
NBD_OPT_ABORT gets a reply, while NBD_CMD_DISC does not.

This patch merely adds the missing reply to NBD_OPT_ABORT and teaches
the client to recognize server errors.  Actually teaching the server
to send NBD_REP_ERR_SHUTDOWN or ESHUTDOWN would require knowing that
the server has been requested to shut down soon (maybe we could do
that by installing a SIGINT handler in qemu-nbd, which transitions
from RUNNING to a new state that waits for the client to react,
rather than just out-right quitting - but that's a bigger task for
another day).

Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <[email protected]>
Message-Id: <1476469998[email protected]>
[Move dummy ESHUTDOWN to include/qemu/osdep.h. - Paolo]
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <[email protected]>