svcrdma: Remove transport reference counting

svcrdma: Remove transport reference counting

Jason tells me that a ULP cannot rely on getting an ESTABLISHED
and DISCONNECTED event pair for each connection, so transport
reference counting in the CM event handler will never be reliable.

Now that we have ib_drain_qp(), svcrdma should no longer need to
hold transport references while Sends and Receives are posted. So
remove the get/put call sites in the CM event handlers.

This eliminates a significant source of locked memory bus traffic.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <[email protected]>