selftests: add functionals test for UDP GRO

selftests: add functionals test for UDP GRO

Extends the existing udp programs to allow checking for proper
GRO aggregation/GSO size, and run the tests via a shell script, using
a veth pair with XDP program attached to trigger the GRO code path.

rfc v3 -> v1:
 - use ip route to attach the xdp helper to the veth

rfc v2 -> rfc v3:
 - add missing test program options documentation
 - fix sporatic test failures (receiver faster than sender)

Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <[email protected]>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <[email protected]>